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Its the time of the year that every man fears. Valentines day.

Valentines days is the day that most men dread and most women love.

Below we have outlined what you can do to make it a Valentines day she won’t soon forget.

From the ideal Valentine’s Day gifts to the ideal Valentine’s Day desserts, this guide will cover everything you need to know to have a wonderful time with the girl who said yes to your question, “Will you be my Valentine?”

Depending on how you plan it out, Valentines day can be a day filled with excitement and joy, or a total failure. This article will give you a blueprint to how to master the art of a great Valentines day.

THE GIFT

Start by selecting the right gift. The right gift symbolizes that you pay attention to the person you care about. The wrong gift symbolizes laziness and not much thought.

If this is one of the very first dates, you don’t have to give her a gift. If you invite her out, you should pay for dinner and buy a nice bottle of wine or champagne if your budget allows it (and you choose to drink). If you still feel you must give her something, a small box of chocolates will be appreciated.

If Valentine’s Day happens to land in the very early stages of a new romance (a few dates, before sex), it can be pretty tricky. In addition to the above, flowers are ok…but have them delivered prior to the date (sweet), do not hand carry them (try hard). If you do choose to do flowers, avoid a dozen roses. One or three is great. If you choose three, you can tell her “The first two represent you and I as individuals and the third symbolizes the two of us together”.

You should know where you are in your relationship and what type of personality the person your dating has. Valentines day is a way to use gifts to heighten romantic situations. Ask yourself the question, “Is this person fun and adventurous and would they enjoy a simple gift like flowers?” “Or is this person risque or wild, someone who would enjoy the fun not-quite-Victoria’s-Secret lingerie?” Knowing the person your with, helps when choosing the right gift to give. Think carefully and you will be rewarded for your well chosen gift.

Note: For those readers who are in a more serious relationship, the above gifts are fine as well, but only as a bonus, not the main gift. When it a long term situation, be sure to put some real thought and effort into getting something personal that you know your woman would appreciate.

THE DATE

With your gift in hand, its time to start the rest of your Valentines Day journey. One of the most important things to remember is that the date does not just start at night when you get to her door. Build up romantic tension by appeasing her senses, by sending well though out text messages. Let her know how much you are looking forward to seeing her tonight. Use each text as a count down. Make her excited by telling her that this is not just any date, and that the though of her brings a smile to your face.

You are the exception to the rule. This is the Valentines day you are going to get right. Any guy out there can give flowers and chocolates, and plan a simple dinner. But you are not any guy. You are the guy that made all the right plans. Now you are going to be the guy with all the right moves.

Be creative. Do not be like every other guy. Instead of typical roses, buy her orchids. This is Valentines day, and you are the exception to the rule.

DINNER TIME

After the date, you are going to want to have some alone time. Since it is Valentine’s Day you have the perfect root to get her back to your place. Let her know you have planned for her a really amazing Valentine’s dinner that you know she is really going to love. Once she is back at your place you can really kick up the romantic aspect of Valentine’s Day to a whole new level.

The quickest way to a woman’s heart, is through her mouth. Cooking a mean for a woman on Valentines Day is extremely thoughtful and romantic.

Once the meal is over, surprise her by bringing out a dessert tray. Here are some ideas to consider when choosing a dessert to serve:

One dessert that never grows old, is S’mores. This easy to create dessert tastes great and brings out the child in all of us.

Chocolates will stimulate a woman sexually, so use them wisely. The sexiest thing about chocolate is its taste and its unique melt-in-your-mouth quality. Try a bowl of strawberries and dipping chocolate. This will be amazingly fun and exciting. Make sure you have extra melted chocolate for finger painting. The body is a bare canvas.

ROMANCE

The night is starting to come to an end. Its time to turn things up a notch.

A good massage always works wonders. Sensual touching through deep tissue massage, always leads to a romantic encounter between individuals.

Valentine’s Day is the day for romance - In whatever form makes sense for you and your special friend or lover.

Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Academy, have the skills to make you a master pick up artist by teaching you how to get the girl you have always wanted by mastering how to havethe perfect Valentines Day!!!

Knowing the following routine provides you with a surefire way to prevent stalling out in a set. Plus, it fascinates your listeners and shines you in a very attractive light.

Quickly glance at the fingers of the girl your talking to, and then ask, “I am curious, why did you choose to to wear that ring on that particular finger?”

[She responds].

You continue, “Interesting, I have a friend who’s a spiritual type, and she just told me that the fingers you choose to wear your rings on says something about your personality. Each one of these mounds, the pads on the palm where the fingers join the hand, is represented by a different god. In ancient Greek culture, you’d wear a ring on that finger to praise and pay homage to that particular god.”

From here, go on to explain each finger one at a time. Start by giving a quick rundown explaining each of the fingers she isn’t wearing a ring on. Then, when you get to the fingers that do have rings, spend a bit more time by giving her a more detailed cold read.

Here are some examples of what to tell a person who is wearing certain rings on certain fingers.

THUMB

“The thumb represents Poseidon. He was extremely independent. He wasn’t up on Mount Olympus. He preferred to be in the sea doing his own thing.

Another things that you can comment on is the uniqueness of the thumbs position. The thumb sticks out from the rest of the other digits on your finger. Tell her that if she chooses to wear a thumb rings, that she does not like to follow trends and she prefers to set them.

INDEX FINGER

Tell her that the index finger represents Zeus, the god of lightning and thunder.

Zeus, the king of the gods, is represented with this finger. Any person that wears a ring on their index finger, tends to be a more dominant individual.

End by waving of your index finger at her as if to say “no no no” or “don’t do that.”

MIDDLE FINGER

Dionysus is represented by this finger.

Having a ring there means you tend to do whatever you want and care less about what others think.”

If they’re wearing a ring on this finger toss up your middle finger and joke, “It’s like saying screw you to the world.” This almost always get a laugh.

RING FINGER

“Your ring finger is of course represented by Aphrodite, the goddess of love. Perhaps that’s why we wear our wedding rings on this particular finger.

Tell her that this finger is the most popular finger for women to wear a ring on. This finger show that when a person falls in love with another person, they tend to fall for them completely.

Conclude with “Interestingly, it is the only finger that has a vein that goes straight to the heart without branching off, so when someone puts a ring on that finger, they’re actually making a direct connection with your heart.” If she’s comfortable, trace a line from her finger up her arm as you say this.

PINKY FINGER

“The pinky is represented by Ares, the god of war. You’ll often see mobsters with pinky rings on.

Wearing a ring on your pinky finger can mean two different things. The first side represents you being a protector. When anyone threatens the ones you love, you are usually the first person to become protective. The second side is a little darker. It show that you are a little mischievous and tend to break or bend the rules frequently.

At the end, you should smile and momentarily lock your pinky with hers.

CONTINGENCIES:

* If she isn’t wearing rings and you still want to use this routine, then you can begin by saying “Look at your hands and imagine that you’re wearing some rings. Now, tell me which fingers you’re imagining them on.”

* If during or after the routine the woman asks, “How do you know this?” You may respond, “An ex- girlfriend of mine was into mythology and taught it to me.”

* If she wears a ring on her wedding finger then inquire “Is that an engagement ring or do you just wear that to keep the womanizers away?” You’ll be surprised how often the latter is true.

Here is quick reference pocket guide for you to memorize and use. Enjoy.

Pinky = Ares representing conflict and protection Index = Zeus representing dominance and power Middle = Dionysus representing irreverence Ring = Aphrodite representing love and romance Thumb = Poseidon representing individuality

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She looked at me and a smile crept across her face. “There’s something different about you,” she said with a smile. All I could think at that moment was, people really do notice you when you get a great haircut.

The moment people notice your new hair cut, is the moment you start to look at yourself in a new light. The idea is to change your personal style one article at a time and use that momentum to carry your life in a new “better” direction.

Getting a hair cut is just the beginning. The energy that radiates from you, that other people feel, is freely available to anyone looking to transform into something better.

You don’t have to be born with any specific talent, but you must be prepared to work to rise to the top of your personal capabilities. Here are 5 tips to get you started:

ACTION #1: Embrace the Pain

The superstar is vulnerable. Your mind, body, and emotions will all be exposed in this process. There will be bumps and bruises along the way but in the end you will heal and be stronger. It is okay to fear this pain, but you must be ready to push past it and continue on. The superstar does not quit.

Quoting Arnold Schwarzenegger, “The last three or four reps is what makes the muscles grow. This area of pain divides a champion from someone who is not a champion. That’s what most people lack, having the guts to go on and just say they’ll go through the pain no matter what happens.”

Make the personal vow to embrace that pain right now and you will be one step closer to superstardom.

GUIDELINE #2: Take Off the Lid

Stop questioning what you “can” and “cant” do. Just do. The majority of fears, anxieties, and limitations are started by self-imposed beliefs. Break the habit of limiting yourself. Start small and then aim big. You will be surprised at what you can accomplish, by talking yourself into believing you have no limitations.

Its your job to stop limiting yourself and start believing your unstoppable.

ACTION #3: Understand that Obstacles are Part of the Journey

How bad do you want it? Once you come to the understanding that failure is part of the process, be ready to fail. You can only fail upward. It all depends on how bad you want something.

Embrace the unknown. Push past your comfort level. You will be surprised at how resilient you are.

GUIDELINE #4: Be a Beginner and Be an Expert

You are by no means too superior to learn something new. Learn to become humbled by new tasks that seem to complicated.

Never underestimate the fundamentals. Always aim to master of any simple skill. Any new skill takes time. Remember to keep your mind open.

GUIDELINE #5: Dream BIG

Yes, setting reasonable goals for yourself that you know you can achieve and incrementing those goals into small chunks. That is important for the average person…BUT the superstar must strike the perfect balance. Remember today’s second tip, you cannot limit yourself.

“To infinity and beyond.” Your dreams are within your grasp. Reactivate the dreamer part of your personality that you had when you were a child. There are no limits, only the limits you put on yourself.

Ask yourself, what are your dreams NOW…because you must have those dreams to bring them into reality. And you can. And you will.

“All great lovers are articulate, and verbal seduction is the surest road to actual seduction.”

- Marya Mannes

Pay attention close attention to what is being written here. On your next visit to a club, take the time to notice what the women youre interested in is wearing. Find something of particular interest that you can start a conversation around. Try using her shoes as a conversational item.

Think to yourself, if I was wearing those shoes, what would a person say to me. A person who is interesting, can capture the mind of any person, just by talking to them. Why? The key to stimulating conversation, is the ability to see yourself from someone else’s perspective. Think about it. The next time you talk to a women, do you come across as interesting or just another boring guy.

Try theses three tactics to to add some spice to your conversations.

1. Really listen to what she has to say.

“I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.”

” Ernest Hemmingway

It may come as a shock, but women like to know that you are listening to them. You’d be surprised by how much you can learn about a person, just by taking the time to listen to them. The key to any seductive conversation is listening. A true social artist knows that what a person is saying is the most important quality.

- Listen to the words they use, the topics they bring up, and the topics they respond to. Then ask yourself, “Why is this person saying what they are saying? What does our conversation tell me about this person?”

- When you do respond, do not say the first thing that comes to your mind. Take a moment to think about what youre going to say then respond.

- Your opinion is your greatest asset or your biggest liability. “Will my opinion, damage this discussion?” Is a question that needs to be answered before you state your opinion.

2. Talk with words that convey feeling

“Feelings! I don’t go by feelings! That would get you killed in war!”

” Henry Rollins

Emotions are everything to seduction. Use your words wisely. The right words, when used correctly, open up a persons feelings. Being genuine and curious about what a person says opens up a world of possibilities.

- Ask yourself, “What is this person’s emotional state? What emotional state do I want them in? What can I say to change it?”

- Pay attention to the patterns in their emotional states. Find a way to change the pattern and you will stand out in her mind.

3. Strategically Flatter Her

“The aim of flattery is to soothe and encourage us by assuring us of the truth of an opinion we have already formed about ourselves.”

” Dame Edith Sitwell

Dont just be the next guy. Find an area in her life she is timid about, and flatter her about it. Have purpose behind your complements. Every person wants to feel desired. Real flattery, is the capability to make people feel good about their insecurities.

- Use your compliments to ease any insecurities and doubts they have about themselves.

- Choose your flattery. Praise her noticeable insecurities, and she will remember you forever.

- Flattery should be genuine. Do not make them sexual.